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Post by stellerjaye33 on Sept 21, 2020 17:14:15 GMT -5
write his name on a piece of paper. put it in a bottle or bag of water and put it in your freezer. it is a spell to help me someone chill out or cool it.
have you tried also reporting him to the hire ups at your work. that is 100% sexual harassment and really unprofessional to have in the work place. also having your fiance get involved could get you fired. I feel sorry for this sicko, he can't take rejection well
. also don't curse him what ever you put out as energy to other people (weather they are a good person or not) will come back to you amplified. just report him to hire ups. im sending you a hug from afar. i know how awful it can be to have someones unwanted pestering advances. it doesn't matter if you find him attractive or not. its the face that his attention is unwanted. your not alone.
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Post by Tiffany-Ann Michaca on Sept 22, 2020 0:07:34 GMT -5
write his name on a piece of paper. put it in a bottle or bag of water and put it in your freezer. it is a spell to help me someone chill out or cool it. have you tried also reporting him to the hire ups at your work. that is 100% sexual harassment and really unprofessional to have in the work place. also having your fiance get involved could get you fired. I feel sorry for this sicko, he can't take rejection well . also don't curse him what ever you put out as energy to other people (weather they are a good person or not) will come back to you amplified. just report him to hire ups. im sending you a hug from afar. i know how awful it can be to have someones unwanted pestering advances. it doesn't matter if you find him attractive or not. its the face that his attention is unwanted. your not alone. Um thnx but, slight issue..... No 1 cares @ my job that's y 1st year i trined to keep to myself but, someone got me out of my shell now, i dunno how to get bck in fiancé gets extremely worried when, i speak to ppl i dunno. I get followed alot & do try to hide, was blamed for someone's gf getting killed but, that was Chris's fault not mines...long story short for that thou he was gang related & i try to not associate myself w/ ppl alot.so, when Javier acts like this towards me i dunno wtf will listen plus, i got blamed for something i never did & i even told all the bosses & all the higher ups who were to blame but, just cuz, I'm white hispanic they blame me for wat t dark skinned ppl did i can't go to anyone or then, i'mma b terminated. So, I'm basically screwed. If, only i gone bck to my old ways but, I'll die faster that way & plus, i've been clean from h@rm myslf for 4 1/2yrs. I made it this far i will not give up so, easily as my Aunt did, i wan b there for my 2 young nieces & my fiancé who show's he gets the most worried bout me. Btw i can't go outside or go to work til, Wednesday, i got horrible allergies & the sun makes it alot worse. So, if u got any other tips to keep predifiles, stalker/creeps, & or just javier away, pls share i'mma b, around. I got no friends near me cuz, was call lame, stupid & ugly i'm okie w/o any close friends. I almost forgot Javier isn't the only Puerto Rican guy there is older, Alot Older Men too i get scared of 'em, yes but, i reallie can't speak up. i don't wan get hurt, idk who in my area[Orlando, Florida] to trust.
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Post by Steve on Sept 22, 2020 9:18:50 GMT -5
Oh. Any ideas for me to get some guy to quit hitting on me(aka trying to win me over) it's pissing of my fiancé to the point he wans to confront him & i knu that'll end badly. I have already told the guy I'm not interested but, he keeps insisting & i knu wat he's trying to do i already find him unattractive At this point it has become sexual harassment. I just wan him to quit looking for me, asking me to hng out alone w/ him, & worst part is he works in same hospital as i. Any ideas, Steve? That makes this sexual harassment at the workplace, you can file charges against him, also if you notify your employer and they do nothing about it, you can file charges on the workplace as well. btw i think he's a wanna b vamp & it's not working wat ever Javier is trying to do is not even working i don't like to b hugged or cuddled by any other guy except for my fiancé, i have told him to not touch me but, he ignores. He also, tried to buy me adult TOYs, i told him not interested in those & i clearly don't like those toys, anyways. This is criminal, I would definitely report this, and file charges. If the hospital has a psychiatric wing, or anyone with a degree in psychology working there, you can tell that person what is going on ask the person to do a psychiatric evaluation on the person. keywords to say to the person with a degree in psychology is that "the guy doesn't appear to believe that rules of the workplace apply to him".
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Post by Tiffany-Ann Michaca on Sept 22, 2020 12:43:57 GMT -5
Steve, idk who to trust.... They can turn on me.they always get me introuble for small things... Even when, i try to look up lawyes they something like "u can't b looking that up in a work place." Wtf... Everything i do i feel i am doing wrong...i always feel like, I'm doing something wrong when, I'm on my lunch break & hear the bosses @ the breakroom door. The whole work environment in it's self is hostility. Btw this would b 2nd time this "harassment" happened to me. The 1st i told on someone for that man trying to lock me into the closet w/ him, he got away w/ it & i was told that i was lying. I knu they cover alot of things up. I'd never lie bout things like, that. Those r serious things.
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Post by Steve on Sept 22, 2020 14:08:12 GMT -5
Find a different job, and leave that place.
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Post by Tiffany-Ann Michaca on Sept 22, 2020 21:59:53 GMT -5
Find a different job, and leave that place. Wish it was that easy, thou Steve.... I can't even go to a regular collage, when i wish i was actually taught the languags i wanna learn instead of teaching myself... I got a Special Deploma which in reality it's a Special Needs- Disability Deploma cuz, Mild Autism & Dyslexia.... I don't see these as a disability thou, i see it as something a need to achieve, almost like a grade... If, i set my mind on something i feel i can achieve it w/ time & a long process of patients.
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Post by Steve on Sept 23, 2020 7:39:43 GMT -5
From what you have said, that really isn't a safe situation for you to be in.
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Post by Tiffany-Ann Michaca on Sept 23, 2020 8:04:22 GMT -5
From what you have said, that really isn't a safe situation for you to be in. I knu, Steve. I wish others can understand as u do Steve. I don't even tell parents wat goes on i try but, i get ignored or sometimes parents get very mad & knu they can't do anything. Fiancé said once i live w/ him i'll b able to search for another job....
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Post by stellerjaye33 on Sept 23, 2020 19:05:01 GMT -5
if you have to hang in there till then. try looking on line atleast. i really do wish you well and strength to coop.
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Post by Tiffany-Ann Michaca on Sept 23, 2020 19:37:04 GMT -5
if you have to hang in there till then. try looking on line atleast. i really do wish you well and strength to coop. ありがとうございました。 Arigatōgozaimashita. 谢谢。 Xìexìe. 감사합니다. Kamsamnida. [Thank you.] ---------------- Muchas gracias. [Thank you very much.]
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